Let's Talk Legal: What is Mediation and Is It Required?

March 4, 2025 | Cecil Harvell

This episode focused on the concept of mediation as a required step in most legal disputes, particularly in family law and civil cases. Wes Collins explained the mediation process, emphasizing its role as a facilitator for parties to communicate and potentially settle cases without going to trial. The discussion also touched on the qualifications of mediators and the importance of understanding the mediation dynamics for effective legal representation.

Mediation Overview

  • Mediation is now required in most courts, especially in family law cases and civil superior court. In federal court, mediation is typically scheduled before a trial. [01:00]

  • Mediation is part of alternative dispute resolution (ADR), which aims to resolve disputes without the time and expense of a trial. [02:00]

Mediation Process

  • All parties involved in a lawsuit are required to attend mediation, which can occur in person or via Zoom. Mediators are usually agreed upon by the parties or appointed by the court. [03:00]

  • The mediator acts as a facilitator, helping parties communicate and work towards a resolution rather than making a binding decision. [04:00]

  • Mediation typically begins with an opening session where attorneys present their positions, allowing both sides to understand each other's perspectives. [05:00]

  • After the opening statements, parties usually separate into different rooms, with the mediator shuttling between them to negotiate offers and counteroffers. [06:00]

Duration and Outcome of Mediation

  • Mediation sessions can vary in length, from a few hours to multiple days, depending on the complexity of the case. [07:00]

  • If a settlement is reached, a mediated settlement agreement is drafted and signed, concluding the case without further court involvement. [08:00]

Information Gathering During Mediation

  • Mediation provides an opportunity for attorneys to gather valuable information about the opposing side's case, which can influence settlement decisions and trial preparations. [09:00]

  • Attorneys approach mediation with an open mind, ready to learn new information that may affect their strategy. [10:00]

Confidentiality in Mediation

  • Communications during mediation are confidential and cannot be used in court if the case does not settle. This encourages open negotiation without fear of repercussions. [11:00]

Role of Mediators

  • Mediators are typically experienced attorneys who have undergone specific training and continuing education in mediation practices. [12:00]

  • The effectiveness of mediation relies on the mediator's ability to engage both parties and facilitate productive discussions. [13:00]

Arbitration as an Alternative

  • Arbitration differs from mediation in that it involves a binding decision made by an arbitrator, who hears evidence and arguments from both sides. [14:00]

  • Arbitration can be either binding or non-binding, with the latter allowing for an appeal, although this may counteract the efficiency intended by arbitration. [15:00]

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Let's Talk Legal: What is Mediation and Is It Required?
Cecil S. Harvell Martindale AV Rated
About the Author
Cecil S. Harvell is AV Martindale-Hubbell Peer Review Rated in the areas of Trusts and Estates, General Practice, and Aged and Aging. Mr. Harvell is a native of Morehead City, North Carolina and was admitted to the Georgia State Bar in 1983 and admitted to the North Carolina State Bar in 1987. Read More

Wesley A. Collins Martindale AV Rated
Wesley A. Collins is AV Martindale-Hubbell Peer Review Rated. Wesley A. Collins is a native of Kinston, North Carolina and was admitted to the North Carolina State Bar in 2000. Mr. Collins was admitted to the United States District Court for the Eastern District of North Carolina in 2002. Mr. Collins is also a member of the Million Dollar Advocates Forum. Read More
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